Ten Additional Keys
To Success
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Be Aware of Your Own Strengths
and Weaknesses: Play your best game and play within
the confines of your own comfort zone. In other
words, know yourself, and do what you do well.
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You're Responsible: What you
achieve is the product of your own play. Until a
player accepts accountability for the results he
achieves, he won't have sufficient self-discipline
to guarantee success.
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Think About the Game: Keep up
with the poker literature, and think about the game
at the table and when you're away from it. Analyze
hands you've seen and decide if you would have played
them differently. Think, analyze, modify your game
and repeat as needed.
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Have a Plan: What is your goal
as a poker player? How much are you willing to risk?
You need a definitive plan for your poker play.
Remember, if you don't have your own agenda, you
are likely to wind up a part of someone else's!
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Set Deadlines: If you don’t
place your goals and objectives in a timeframe,
they’ll seldom, if ever, come true.
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Be Realistic: Start with challenging
but reachable goals. Once you make it, you can set
the next, more difficult, goal. You can’t
count on winning the World Series of Poker right
out of the box, but you can set achievable goals
that make you stretch to reach them.
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Expect Difficulties: You will
succumb to all of your flaws as a poker player during
the period you are struggling, growing and reaching
for a higher skill level. Every top-notch player
struggled to reach the level of success they've
achieved, and you're going to have to do the same.
Golf videos won't turn you into Tiger Woods, chess
monographs won't turn you into Gary Kasparov, and
Super System will not turn you into Doyle Brunson.
The best poker books will teach you how to talk
the talk. You'll have to learn to walk the walk
on your own!
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Build On Small Accomplishments:
If you're not a winning player today, but you study
hard, put into practice what you read, and integrate
these strategies into your own style of play, you'll
find yourself improving. Success builds upon itself,
so don't let small setbacks put you on tilt. If
you play poorly today, correct it next time, and
keep moving forward.
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Persist: You must sustain. The
saying: "Ninety percent of success is just
showing up" has a lot of validity. You need
to keep playing, keep practicing, and building on
each small success. Each time you reach one of your
goals, savor the moment, but only briefly. Then
set new goals. If you do not consistently move forward
with your own game, you are probably moving backwards
in relation to your opponents.
- Have Fun: Enjoy yourself. After all, your poker
time is discretionary. If you cannot enjoy yourself
when you play, perhaps you should find another outlet
for your time and money.
Those ten principles are pretty much evergreens, as
they say in the journalism biz, as good today as they
were yesterday, and as good tomorrow as they are right
now. But instead of picking ten more examples from self-help
books, I went to the poetry of William Butler Yeats
to find ten additional quotes. One of the neat things
about great literary achievement is that it finds its
way into all manner of life’s activities. And
while I’m sure that Yeats never played a hand
of poker in his long and productive life, many of his
thoughts, words, and observations fit quite well in
the world of poker. They’re numbered 11 ? 20.
11. How can we know the dancer from the dance?”
Among School Children (1928) Gold chains, cool sunglasses,
and the ability to neatly riffle twenty chips without
any effort whatsoever does not a poker player make.
It may make one look like a poker player, but talking
the talk and walking the walk are entirely different
things. If you’re relatively new to casino poker,
be sure the players you choose as role models know their
stuff. It’s admittedly tough to assess someone’s
competence when even the pretenders may know more than
you do at this juncture, but you have to learn to separate
wheat from chaff, and then begin to model the play of
the best cardsmiths you can find. One way to accomplish
this is to read and study, then look for players whose
games seem built on the principles you’ve learned
in books from credible authors. There’s a “…picking
yourself up by your bootstraps” quality to this
sort of thing, but people do it all the time ? inside
and outside of poker.
12. “Now that my ladder’s gone, I must
lie down where all ladders start, in the rag and foul
bone yard of the heart.” The Circus Animals’
Desertion (1939) Yeats was an old man when he wrote
these words, and may even have sensed that his death
was imminent. Although he struggled with writers’
block toward the end of his career, he never gave up.
Instead of going quietly into the night, he forced his
mind through years of work to the very roots of his
beliefs. Once there, he was able to produce poetry again,
and kept at it until the very end. The same is true
in poker. If you play long enough you will have protracted
losing streaks, times when nothing you do goes right,
and a crisis of confidence that’s almost sure
to follow. This is the time to go back to basics. Play
big hands and play them strongly; fold weak ones and
get away from potentially big hands that are reduced
to rubble by a bad flop. Play correctly, stay the course,
and at the end of the day you’ll find that your
results will approximate your expectation. Going back
to basics is not always fun and seldom easy. But in
poetry, as in poker and in life itself, journeys to
the “…rag and foul boneyard of the heart”
are often necessary and frequently recuperative.
13. “The intellect of man is forced to choose,
perfection of the life, or of the work.” Coole
Park and Ballylee, 1932 (1933) How much of a normal
life are you willing to give up to become an excellent
poker player? The very best live, eat, breathe, and
sleep poker in spite of some disastrous ramifications
on their life outside of the cardroom. That’s
not to say you can’t have a normal life and play
poker too; it’s just that it’s difficult,
and for many it’s impossible. How much of yourself
you decide to give to the game is your choice, of course.
No one else can make it for you. But a poker lifestyle
is not an easy one. Be forewarned.
14. “Too long a sacrifice can make a stone of
the heart.” Easter, 1916 (1921) These lines were
written following the failed and oft romanticized Easter
Rebellion of 1916 and immediately prior to the successful
war in 1922 that led to Ireland’s independence
from England and propelled Yeats into a second career
as a senator. The poker application is direct and obvious.
While there are many regular players who never seem
to enjoy themselves, those who do well seem to follow
that old admonition of Roy West: “Play happy,
or don’t play at all.”
15. “The innocent and the beautiful have no enemy
but time.” In Memory of Eva Gore Booth and Con
Markiewicz (1933) Every year, it seems, there are players
who seem to set the poker world ablaze. Their successes
dazzle the casual viewer and we rush to emulate them,
but just as we do, they fade into primordial mists.
The only results that matter in poker are those we achieve
in the long run. And the long run is a very long time
coming.
16. “I hear lake water lapping with low sounds
by the shore…I hear it in the deep heart’s
core.” The Lake Isle of Innisfree (1893) This
is one of many Yeats poems that’s been set to
music and recorded by a number of artists. Like the,
“Now that my ladder’s gone…”
quote, this is another admonition in which Yeats tells
us to dig deep, listen carefully, go back to basics
and return to our roots to find our way to the heart
and the core of the matter. Just like golfers and baseball
players who tear their swings apart periodically and
build them back up again, successful poker players don’t
just add building blocks of know-how to their game.
Sometimes it’s necessary to tear the entire house
down and reconstruct it brick by brick. And that’s
true regardless of whether it’s done at a green
felt table or on the lake isle of Innisfree.
17. “We had fed the heart on fantasies. The heart’s
grown brutal from the fare.” Meditations In Time
of Civil War (1928) Your heart will grow brutal from
fantasy-fare too, if you don’t put forth the effort
required to separate myth from reality at the poker
table. This shouldn’t be such a big deal. Not
really. But it is. Look at all the players around you
who blame the dealer for their bad luck, who asks for
a deck change as though those little plastic playing
cards were infused with intelligence and a vendetta
mentality aimed at extracting revenge on you and you
only. If you waste your time worrying about stuff like
this, or spend your time thinking about why none of
your flush draws materialized the last time you played,
you’re thinking about the wrong things ? and any
efforts you expend in this area will just give you a
false sense of security. And when none of it works ?
and it won’t, at least it won’t in the long
run ? your heart, your game, and your bankroll will
have grown brutal too.
18. “A pity beyond all telling is hid in the
heart of love.” The Pity of Love (1893) Sometimes
we care too much, both in life and in poker, and when
it all runs straight down we hurt. This is “The
thrill of victory, the agony of defeat” all over
again. It’s one of the reasons we play the game.
Winning is wonderful. Losing hurts. And although every
credible expert tells you to just make good decisions
and forget about the results ? they’ll take care
of themselves in the long run ? every credible expert
experiences the same elation and the same pain you do.
We just don’t give into it. Or we try not to.
19. “The best lack all conviction, while the
worst are full of passionate intensity.” The Second
Coming (1921) If Yeats was writing these words today
he might have had gaming authors in mind. Yes, even
among my esteemed colleagues, false prophets abound.
Be careful whom you believe. The road to success is
not easy and there are no magic bullets you can take
that will make you an expert poker player overnight.
And if you’re thinking of playing casino table
games like craps and baccarat instead of poker, there’s
nothing you can ever do to make yourself a winning player.
Some games just can’t be beaten. And while there
are some wagers available at these games that are better
than others, there is nothing you can do, outside of
getting lucky, to overcome the built in house edge.
If anyone tells you otherwise, the con job isn’t
far behind. The next time someone wants to sell you
a “guaranteed system” you might want to
think of another applicable line taken from this same
poem: “And what rough beast, its hour come round
at last, slouches toward Bethlehem to be born?”
20. “In dreams begins responsibilities.”
Responsibilities (1914) Next time you’re thinking
seriously about blaming the cards, the dealer, or anyone
but yourself for your results at the poker table, think
about this instead. ‘Nuff said.
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